You have two children, each with a unique personality, talents and abilities. It’s terrific, except you realise you “get” your younger kid easily, while the older one is a complete mystery.
You know you love each as much as the other, but you are also aware that you understand one better than her sister.
What’s worse, the one who is more distant might complain that you never understand or listen to her – because you love her sibling more.
To help improve your relationship with this child, ask yourself these questions.