10 diet mistakes every new mum must avoid

January 09, 2020
  • You thought: Eating for two is all right because I’m nursing
    1 / 19 You thought: Eating for two is all right because I’m nursing

    The reality: Well done for persevering with breastfeeding! It’s true that lactating mums need to eat more – as much as 500 calories more a day – because you’re producing food for your little one, Sarah Sinaram, manager of the Nutrition and Dietetics Department at Mount Alvernia Hospital, points out.

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    But be aware of the quality of calories that you are consuming. “Make sure they are healthy calories, not empty ones,” says Susie Rucker, a nutritional therapist at Body With Soul health-care centre.

    Nutritious options include lean meat and fish, wholegrains, seeds, fruit, vegetables, and good fats like olive oil, coconut oil and avocado.

    “To boost milk production, increase your intake of oats, sip on fennel tea, and make sure you get sufficient rest,” Susie recommends.

    (Also read: Saggy belly skin after giving birth: What you can do)

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  • You thought: Who has time for breakfast?
    3 / 19 You thought: Who has time for breakfast?

    The reality: Your demanding newborn has been keeping you busy and you simply have no time for a morning meal, and perhaps even lunch. By dinner time, you’re so ravenous that you wolf down everything at the table.

    Eating too much too late in the day is not good for your digestion, says Susie. It can also interfere with your sleep and concentration.

    Related: Life with a newborn: A sleep-deprived mum’s confession

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    And if you don’t have the opportunity to burn off the calories, this bad habit can lead to weight gain. Even though your mornings may be hectic, it’s important to set aside time to eat when you wake up.

    If breakfast is really not possible, at least have brunch, and eat a small serving every three or four hours.

    “Choose unrefined and unprocessed food, such as salmon, eggs and avocado, which have protein and healthy fat, and fibre-rich grains,” says Susie.

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  • You thought: Everyone’s dieting to lose pregnancy weight, anyway
    5 / 19 You thought: Everyone’s dieting to lose pregnancy weight, anyway

    The reality: The energy and nutrient needs of a nursing mother are higher, so you shouldn’t cut back on your meals, says Sarah.

    “The good news is that, because of the increased energy requirements during breastfeeding, most new mums will experience some weight loss during this period,” she shares.

    (Also read: Why new mums should not go on diet to lose weight after giving birth)

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    Focus on providing good nutrition in the form of healthy food to your child and yourself instead.

    You can start to lose the postnatal weight once you have weaned your baby off breast milk. The World Health Organization recommends nursing for up to two years or more.

    (Also read: Would you feed your baby breast from this woman?)

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  • You thought: I just had lunch. Why am I still hungry?
    7 / 19 You thought: I just had lunch. Why am I still hungry?

    The reality: With so much to do, you can’t help multitasking during mealtimes – rocking your child to sleep, catching up on Instagram and thinking about your grocery list.

    Learn how to eat mindfully, that is, with intention and attention, says Sarah. “This means eliminating or minimising distractions so you can be tuned in to your meal – its flavour, aroma, temperature, texture and taste. Then, you can listen to your body’s cues of hunger and fullness.”

    She suggests planning your meals around nap times or asking someone to keep an eye on your baby while you eat.

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  • You thought: I don’t have time to make dinner. I’ll buy a burger
    8 / 19 You thought: I don’t have time to make dinner. I’ll buy a burger

    The reality: When you don’t have time to prepare a healthy meal, it’s easy to fill your tummy with a burger-and-fries combo or greasy fried noodles. Items like these may satisfy the taste buds and be cheap and convenient, but they are often devoid of nutrients.

    Susie recommends preparing and freezing healthy meals, like soups and casseroles, ahead of time. You can also stock up on frozen veggies so you can prepare stir-fries in a pinch.


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    If you have to resort to a takeaway meal, note that some cuisines are healthier than others.

    So choose Thai or Indian dishes over, say, pizza and burgers. “It’s fine to cut corners, but not at the expense of your baby’s and your health,” Susie adds.

    Remember, too, that whatever you eat will be consumed by your breastfeeding baby, reminds Sarah.

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  • You thought: I’m always exhausted and stressed; don’t bug me about my diet
    10 / 19 You thought: I’m always exhausted and stressed; don’t bug me about my diet

    The reality: Comfort eating is a bad habit, so try not to succumb to the temptation. If you’re feeling low, reach for good food that will increase your energy while helping to alleviate some of your anxiety.

    “Cottage cheese, chicken and turkey contain tryptophan, which helps produce serotonin, a mood-boosting chemical; while avocado and salmon contain healthy essential fat, which can improve your mood,” says Susie.


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    Avoid refined and processed carbohydrates, such as cookies, cakes and candy bars. “These provide no nourishment and will only make you feel more tired and down,” she adds.

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  • You thought: I’m drinking enough water, really
    12 / 19 You thought: I’m drinking enough water, really

    The reality: Drink 2.5 litres of fluid a day, but avoid caffeinated drinks and soft drinks as these can dehydrate you. Besides, caffeine is not good for Baby. Instead, stick to still or sparkling water and herbal teas, Susie advises.

    Homemade soups also provide hydration while giving you extra nutrition, but keep it simple with plenty of vegetables, lean meat or fish, and a non-creamy, low-fat, and low-sodium broth.

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    In traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), red-date tea is thought to have numerous benefits for new mums, says physician Lim Sor San, a TCM advisor from Mummamia Confinement.

    It replenishes the blood and has a calming effect on the body. When combined with black dates and ginger, it’s said to nourish the digestive system and, in turn, reduce constipation, a common problem for new mums.

    While red-date tea is recommended in TCM postnatal recovery, Sor San also advises drinking other warm beverages, such as lemongrass or ginger tea.

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  • You thought: The more Chinese herbs, the better
    14 / 19 You thought: The more Chinese herbs, the better

    The reality: The right herbs taken in appropriate amounts can help speed up a new mum’s recovery after birth and boost milk production, Sor San explains.

    This is why ingredients such as red dates, wolfberries, dried longan, dang gui, dang shen and bei qi are commonly used in confinement dishes.


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    But you shouldn’t take more than 15g of each in a day, as a rule of thumb. When consumed in large amounts without a certified TCM physician’s prescription, it can lead to overdosing and other complications.

    It’s also important to know that not all herbs are recommended for mums immediately after childbirth. Speak to a TCM professional first.

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  • You thought: This is high in fat; I’d better avoid it
    16 / 19 You thought: This is high in fat; I’d better avoid it

    The reality: Not all high-fat food is bad. Avocados, for instance, contain monounsaturated fat, which is actually healthy, so don’t drop them from your diet, Sarah says.

    Plus, the green fruit has plenty of folic acid, vitamins C, B6 and K, and potassium, which are important for breastfeeding mums.

    Ensure that all your meals are balanced, that is, representative of the four food groups: Rice and starch alternatives, vegetables, fruit, and meat and meat alternatives.


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    “If you eat only a certain type of food, you will be missing out on the nutrients that other food can provide,” says Sarah.

    “Practise moderation when consuming unhealthy food such as deep-fried items. And limit your oily-fish consumption to no more than twice a week because of the high mercury content.”

    (Also read: Healthy snacks for busy parents: 7 ways to eat better)

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  • You thought: I’m starving (again). Time for a snack!
    18 / 19 You thought: I’m starving (again). Time for a snack!

    The reality: Control your blood sugar to keep hunger pangs at bay, so you don’t feel tempted to snack constantly throughout the day, says Susie.

    To prevent your blood sugar level from spiking and then crashing just before lunchtime, start the day with a protein-rich breakfast dish, such as eggs.

    Then, have a nutritious lunch that includes plenty of fibre and water, to keep you satisfied till dinner. Do also drink lots of water to curb those hunger cravings.


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    If you feel like a snack, keep it small but make sure it’s filling and nutrient-dense. A combination of carbohydrates and protein always hits the spot. Susie suggests chicken kebabs, seaweed or a handful of mixed nuts with dark chocolate.

    (Photos: 123RF.com)

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